Ronnie...You got it. I figured it out this morning. I had them on the existing plug(instructions are a little vague) The only place I saw "white" mentioned was on the pic of the connector. If I'd had a diagram of the radio I would have known the spare plug was for the park assist features. DOH! What got me was 2 of the little PIN connectors were crushed flat right out of the package. I took great care to bend them back right but when it didnt work I assumed they were the culprit. After sorting through countless trays of differernt connectors we found and replaced them with new and it STILL didnt work...grrrr. Then reading the instructions for the umpteenth time
EDIT: The fun part was driving to the dealer in a snowstorm this morning with no heat/defrost or 4x4 since the dash was in the back seat.