I agree with some of what you said...but on the other hand...why can't these aftermarket hitch manufacturers get a hitch available now? The trucks have been on the market for some time, why does it take them SO long to get a hitch ready? It's not really all Ram's fault. Also, I guess if you have the right dealer they will get it done for you! I am towing with my '13 Ram 2500 and 20,000 lb Curt hitch!
2013 Ram 2500 SLT Hemi / 2011 Durango Crew Lux Pentastar / 1968 Roadrunner 383 HP