Welcome to the Z. Why keep contact with them to a minimum? Seems to me you would want a good working relationship with the dealer as they'll likely be taking care of your baby for you.
We have a lot of forums for all kinds of topics, so you shouldn't have any problems finding a place to post questions.
When you get your Ram, we LOVE pics of Rams.
Here's how to post them: http://www.ramforumz.com/forumdisplay.php?f=73