No worries, DD...been there, done that. The lady that had a problem with me being gone also had major trust issues. After she emptied our joint bank account, maxed out the credit cards with cash transactions and deposited the car payment/house payment/other payments due on other stuff for 3 months, she left.
Then, one day while I was at work, she came back to the house and cleaned it out. All that was left was my clothes, my books, my guitar and a stack of past due bills....then I got hit with $1,000 / month child support payments...
But that was then and this is now...sorry for the rant....LOL