Originally Posted by BlueJet
Never make decisions in anger, you might regret it later. Been married twice so I know. You have to draw the line somewhere and stay true to yourself. If you don't/can't work through the issues then don't stay together to the point of hating each other. If you think with outside help you can work things out, do it. I get the underlying tone from your post you really want it to work.
My parting thought is if you do part ways, will you be able to look yourself in the mirror and know in your heart you did all you could to save it before giving up? Living with regret or doubts isn't fun.
Now, who gave up on you? Lemmie at 'im
Kidding, but seriously Stacy is right, Do all you can, and when you feel there is nothing else you can do, you have to move on.