Thanks for all the input, I'm currently troubleshooting a hesitation/surging/stalling issue on my RAM and think I might end up needing to take it to a dealer to continue troubleshooting. Here's my thread on the issue: http://www.ramforumz.com/showthread.php?t=127402
My wife went to the Dodge dealer in Danbury, and even after she gave them all the info on the truck, they couldn't even manage to give her the correct oil filter.
I took the truck to Milford Chrysler Jeep Dodge Ram when I worked in Trumbull, CT and had them do a PCM reflash when I bought the truck to ensure it had the latest software. They seemed to be decent, and I would consider going back there. Just wanted to see if anyone had a really good experience with one of the local dealers and their ability to troubleshoot a difficult issue.