I had the same problem with my headlights on my 08 Ram. I ended up switching them out for 6000k Plug n Play HID kit. I still do have to properly correct the aim, but even with them being blinders, they are a huge noticable difference. I am driving on dark back roads every night with the tendency of deers and people jogging on them. With HID's I am capabe of seeing over double what I used to be able to see, and with them still as blinders, I can pretty much see all of the cornfields on both sides too
But yea, HID kits do make a huge difference on the 08 over the garbage halogens which were on them before. I looked at some higher halogens, but read reviews about them burning out fairly fast, and with these HID's, the shop gave me a 1 year warranty on everything for it.