Not sure if anyone is even following this but just updating on my progress. Helps me keep track of everything though.
Took my overhead console off today to figure out the lighting issue, both switches are completely broken, replaced the light bulbs and still no light but I think I accidentally put the wrong ones in since I looked it up online and then when I was putting them in saw what the bulb number was supposed to be. Anyways I ordered two new switches since I was missing parts of the switches and could not jb weld them, got the switches from digikey
Also took apart the passenger door panel to check out the power window and speaker issue. Looks like someone has been back there before since there was tape holding the plastic onto the door and a few clips were bent out of shape. Power window plug doesn't have the clip anymore so it fits in snug but doesn't clip. Couldn't see anything wrong with it so I figured it was just the switch... I will probably order that some other time, don't feel like spending $100 for something that minor right now.
On the other hand the speaker wasn't working and nothing seemed to look wrong so I took the driver side door apart and pulled the speaker from there that was working and hooked it up to the passenger door and it worked fine so I will be ordering two new 6x9 speakers to replace them for now. I will get a new head unit later (has an aftermarket Sony that is probably 10 years old).
I didn't feel like trying to rip apart the extended cab doors since I haven't seen exactly how to do that yet, thought about it but decided to do more research before I broke something. If anyone is reading this and has a link to the removal of the extended cab doors that would be great.
Realized I don't have any pictures of her up yet so I will take some today and post em later.