I was a Ford truck owner for a couple of decades+, and in 2004 decided to try the Ram with the Hemi. I am currently on Ram #3 with the Hemi.
I like the fact that I can get a great looking truck and not have to sacrifice anything for it; actually it seems that I got it all, looks, performance, features and comfort.
Notes from personal experience -
1) The Hemi ticks. This appears to be a good thing. I have only one come across one Hemi that didn't tick, and the owner had a major issue that required a complete engine replacement. His new Hemi ticks, and he couldn't be happier. :smileup:
2) Starts very well in extreme cold. I live in Canada and have to deal with long term cold weather, and my occupation requires me to leave the truck parked for extended periods (days) in lots that have no electrical plug in capabilities, so as a result I never plug my vehicles in ever. The Hemi has never let me down. After sitting for 3 days at -40-44, it started without issue. Starting in -30 is like starting in the summer.
3) Dash noises (squeak/rattle) especially on the passenger side near the A pillar. This is most noticeable in the extreme cold. My 2010 is better than my 08 was, but it still exists to some degree. Not bad enough for me to complain to the dealer about (always forget to mention it), so that should give you an idea of how bad it is.
4) Way to much fun to drive. This does affect total fuel cost, as I tend to put on more miles. I have numerous vehicles to drive, each is application dependent, but find that I will always try to use the Ram, as it's just so nice to drive.
5) The 1500 model is a little light in the suspension world (which also contributes to the absolutely wonderful ride), so suspension enhancement is necessary if you are going to carry big loads or pull heavy trailers on a regular basis. I use the Timbren SES for this.
All in all, my 3 time experience with the Ram has been excellent. When the time comes to replace my current truck, I will check out what the competition has to offer, but as it sits, Ram has the advantage before the search begins. :smileup:
Keep us posted as what your final decision is....and why.