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Old 11-07-2012, 11:36 PM
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I don't share well... Period. I also don't cheat. That said my ex wife left me for her co worker 6 years ago. I'm now getting remarried to a wonderful women (6 years my senior) and I have a beautiful daughter from my previous marriage. This stuff sucks but you have to move on. Just make sure you look forward and not backwards while ironing everything out in court. What seems fair and just while you're angry may not be what you need later on down the road. Chin up broseph. It will get better.

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Thanks for all the support and advice,now comes another question. I have done some digging and thanks to the internet and other sources I have found out his full name,phone,address and what he drives(a friggin ford no less,and worst of all his effin house is less than 4 miles from mine. As I have become more aware and she has realized that I and ol columbo are smarter than the average bear,she has just today come forth with any and all information on all of them,given me acces to all her accounts and passwords etc,says she realized that she has a problem and will cooperate in any way that I want. Now my heart says to give her one last chance, and ol columbo is still processing. I have the goods on them and oh yeah my nieghbor has a camera on the front of his house and it points right at mine(HD High Res Video With Night Vision)and he is going to cut me a copy of the beautiful footage asap. Thoughts?
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I think only you know what is right to do. We can sit here and offer advice (I have no problem doing), but in the end it is up to you. You can give her another chance but I would be watching her like a fugging hawk.. I am not much help on this topic but I do feel for you man. Sorry you had to go through all this shit
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I would be extremely stressed if i had to worry about everything my spouse is doing, who they text, who their on internet with and if they go out what their doing. I would be to stressed out all the time to deal with it, but thats just me. i dont have enough experience to say more then that. Good luck!
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I should have been I private investigator,I has some very useful toos at my disposal and are going to employ them(some already in place).

Got some software that can evade any and all antispy/virus apps for any phone. Is legal to use but not in court,will need PI for that but pictures speak a thousand words.
Also some GPS devices that are super small and can be put anywhere/Truck(realtime tracking)
And i am going to install similar camera system on my house(as well as a few inside at every entrypoint with same HD high Res quality as my nieghbor.

And the cell phone software as cool I dont even have to touch her phone to make it work, instant acces to all texts,IM's emails,hidden apps,passwords and most importantly,real time calls(can listen in and record if nesessary,undetacted) so I can be sure if it does I will have all the goods I need for a no contest divorce with custody of all the kids and child support. I really hope she is not trying to pull the wool over my eyes and believes that I am serious about this possible last chance, I will not be made a fool of again. Once again thanks for everything(and now the purse strings can open up for my project/happyness)
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Wow now if I had to do all that I wouldn't even bother not worth it to me. I understand it is to get custody of the kids. With all of this that you are doing do you really think you can ever trust her again? How can you do all this and say you trust her and then stop monitoring her?
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^^ agreed. Some things just cant be turned back. It likely wont ever be the same
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If i were you and I'm sorry to say,,,this might have been going on for more years them you think,,, Have a DNA test ,,, I'm so sorry,, but you just might have to face it
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If i were you and I'm sorry to say,,,this might have been going on for more years them you think,,, Have a DNA test ,,, I'm so sorry,, but you just might have to face it
oh no let's hope not :/
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And this is exactly why I'm never getting married. Can't trust anyone. If that were me, and she brought a man into MY house that I worked MY ass off to pay for in MY bed where I rest after working to support my family, she'd be on the curb and the kids would be mine. Just the thought of that kind of lack for feelings or civility would drive me up a wall.

My advice (I'm only 23 so it may not be the best), start on the divorce papers, stay civil in front of the kids, and then rat her out to her family.

I'm actually angry for you (even tho your slip up is still f*cked up), she crossed so many lines
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