In response to Jhinkle here is the link that I purchased my parts from; http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B0046NUOLM
I also had to purchase the most recent pitman arm and I bought the associated bilstein steering stabilizer.
My best luck was with google, typing in dodge ram death wobble cure.
It really is amazing how much of a difference this made
Thank you everyone for reading