I've towed the 2014 Ram 8 speed 4WD for more than 10,000 miles now. I use the M&G Engineering brake, Blue Ox Aventa 10,000 tow bar, http://www.ebay.com/itm/2013-2014-RA...-/380727151906
The original subject of this post has been resolved. When I turn the truck off with the transfer case AND transmission in neutral, foot off of the brake, push and hold the start button until the truck shuts off AND the transmission switch moves to Park (all by itself). Then release the start button. Then bump the start button (foot OFF the brake) to cycle it to OFF.