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So i have been married to the greatest woman that has ever graced my life. But i haven't been good to her in any way. I ended up sleeping with my piece of shit ex back in november of 2010, I drunk texted an ex saying that I have always liked her (which wasnt true) and lied about having sex with her, and I also messed around with another girl when we first started dating, and also caught me looking at porn. I recently told her all of this but where I ****ed up is i didnt tell her all at once cause i didnt have the balls to do it. She now says she is hardened and doesnt love me anymore because of this and has moved back to her parents house and took our little boy with her. I want to do everything i can do to prove that I do love her and that I will never make this mistake again. I am going to try the "Fireproof" method everyday. She has never lied to me and has never been unfaithful to me in any way, shape, or form. That's what disgusts me. The fact that I have such a good hearted woman and I did all of this to her. I was a selfish, inconsiderate ******* for doing it not thinking of how she would feel. I do not want to lose her. She has been gone just one day and this is killing me. Any help is more than greatly appreciated!
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The only advice I can offer is tell her you will go to counseling to fix your problem with commitment.If she sees you actually working on making yourself a better person she may give you a break.
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I dont have an issue with commitment. I did before but not now. I cant imagine being with another woman except her!
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This is not the place for help of this type- I don't want to sound like a prick, or unfeeling, but IMO this is handled better in counseling/with a pastor/with a therapist- in private. I'd also edit the OP as well as taking this private.

You have a built in support network with the Corps as well.

You have my total support, and props to you for manning up to admit your indiscretion.
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The only advice I can offer is tell her you will go to counseling to fix your problem with commitment.If she sees you actually working on making yourself a better person she may give you a break.
Good luck.
This is actually some good advice and could go along way to getting you guys back together.
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No sense in beating you up over it, you manned up and admitted your mistake. How about this, instead of you trying to figure out how to fix it, why not ask her what it would take to work this out and get things back on track so you two can move on and be open to any and all suggestions she makes? Try putting the ball in her court but don't rush her, that's when you're most likely to get an answer you don't want to hear. I do agree with you getting started in some sort of counseling so in the meantime, she can see you are making an effort not only to understand what you did, but why it happened so it won't happen again. Good luck man, hope you two can get through this, together.

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This is not the place for help of this type- I don't want to sound like a prick, or unfeeling, but IMO this is handled better in counseling/with a pastor/with a therapist- in private. I'd also edit the OP as well as taking this private.

You have a built in support network with the Corps as well.

You have my total support, and props to you for manning up to admit your indiscretion.

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Thanks guys. We are working everything out now. But today I think i might lose my job seeing as I have been warned about tardies last week and today I overslept unintentionally. If I lose this I lose my life.
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Dude, you really need to get your shit together. You realize that you are creating these crises in your life? You may want to find out why....
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I almost lost my job cause I overslept adn turned off my alarm in my sleep. but I still have my job. Thank god!
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