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Old 11-23-2011, 01:21 AM
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It will not make sense to us (guys), but makes perfect sense to her. We are not likely to have a pity party where the entire month long conversation is about the 'Cad'. We will sit in the garage with a 24 of beer, ask the question "I wonder what she's doing", followed by, "Did you get a price on those headers?".

When you said the you didn't want to talk about 'him', you said a worse thing than if you had told her to 'F...O..'. I have absolutely NO IDEA why, but after a few decades of observation and experience have determined that under these circumstances, you are 'EITHER' on 'HER SIDE', or not. She will not be able to comprehend you being friends on both sides of the fence, so don't waste your time thinking you can.....with her knowledge. If she thinks you are on her side, and ever sees you with him, YOU are toast buddy!

Like I said, I don't know why, I just know signs.

" Hey girl! I know you need your space and respect that. You know how to get a hold of me, and I will always be there for you. "

Then out of the blue some day, she will contact you. If not, like MADDOG said, she wasn't a friend after all. It's a waiting game, so might as well get a case of beer and work on the Ram!
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Old 11-23-2011, 01:31 AM
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I like how it all circles back to the truck lol . Well, she's stopped talking to me, so I took yins advice and let her know I'm her when she's ready to talk, unfortunately as a tear hits my cheek. I unfortunately have lost a lot of friends in the past years, mostly due to their significant others or related issues. Life sucks sometimes. It's a shame people have to behave like children sometimes. I've got a pretty good feeling I'll never hear from her, but we'll see I guess...

I've unfortunately lost just about all of my best friends in the past 2 years, and it really sucks. Also unfortunately, and as much as I love her, my wife is not always the most supportive with these issues. I think she just doesn't quite get it. Not to make fun of any of you all, I appreciate all of you, but it just sucks to feel closest to people whom you've never met...
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the best thing is to let her know that you will always have an open ear, no matter what issue comes up, never take sides
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Not to make fun of any of you all, I appreciate all of you, but it just sucks to feel closest to people whom you've never met...
You just made an excellent point, it's always easier to talk things over with folks you have never met because we are all outside of the situation and so aren't biased towards one side or the other.

I do agree, sucks to lose a friend, no matter what the situation. Speaking from a female perspective lol, guess I'm not typical. When I'm done with a relationship, by the time it comes to that, I'm just that, done, not even friends with my exes but I don't go around bad mouthing them, either. Like Michael said, she's just mad at everyone right now and as much as I like all my friends, I've never made a habit of taking relationship problems to them, really puts them in an awkward position when things go badly between people, which they often do, but it's a good sign the relationship is on the way out anyway when you can't talk to the person you're with and instead turn your friends into relationship counselors.

Maybe one day she'll come around again, but if not, 1 out of 2 isn't bad. You have made an effort to maintain a friendship with her and if it were me, I'd leave her alone, let her sulk or whatever and just stick with the friendship with your bud.

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Any advice from any of you guys on how to straighten her out or save our friendship?


never understand this way of thinking. let her go, why people think they have to kill themselves to stay friends is beyond me. your life will go on if you never talk to her again so why worry about. friends come, friends go
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I just like to do every thing I can to try to stay firends, I care about my friends so even though she's not being nice doesn't mean I suddenly hate her. I don't like this disposable friends idea seems many people have anymore.
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When my wife and i got divorced we hated each other which sucked (we have kids) but instead of dragging it all around and letting the kids see us we just stopped only time we talked was when we had to do something with or for the kids. Now her friends hated me and my friends hated her ok after 2 years my x and i are like best friends all of her and my friend are getting along now. Breaking up /divorce just burns some times and youll always have the he said she said crap but time does heal all wounds and sometimes can bring people closer then they were before.
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