For the good of the group, for those who want to run the stock fog light switch with aftermarket LED lights and aftermarket relay harness.
(This is for a donor off a 1997 1500, assuming the colors are the same for all early model Gen 2’s, but let me know if I am wrong here)
I did not use the blue or thicker gauge ground wire (black and orange).
Using the volt meter I ended up using the brown and white wire to receive power from the my distribution box, and the power out to my relay was run from the thin looking, possibly 18 gauge or smaller, ground wire (also black and orange).
The orange wire is the dash illumination wire. I read on the forum from someone smarter than me with electrical you can piggy back from the Over Drive Switch.