I use two relays. On one relay, I connect the switched power from the dash switch to pin 86. Then connect pin 30 to the high beams. Finally on the 1st relay, I connect pin 87 to pin 86 on the second relay. On the second relay, I connect battery to pin 30, and the off road lights to pin 87. I connect pin 85 to ground on both. This configuration puts minimal load on the high beam circuit and allows the off road lights to get full power from the battery. It also allows you to use the high beam switch to control the off road lights with out looking for the dash switch.