I like the automatic transmission. I don't want to clutch/shift all the time. And I don't need a 2500. RAM not offering a manual transmission in the 1500 is a completely different discussion.
All I want to do is be able to downshift on a down hill/curve, or at highway speeds when you approach slower traffic (so I'm not touching brakes at 75 or 80 MPH), without taking my eyes off the road. I've been driving my Challenger like this for years. My old 2006 Ridgeline had an D/OD button on the column shifter that took me out of one of the two OD gears into 3rd gear which was perfect for deceleration. Finding those tiny gear +/- buttons, either in the dark, or while the steering wheel is moving in a turn is not easy. Slapping an auto stick is easy and intuitive and is not the same tactile sensation as setting the speed on your cruise control.
If you look around this and other RAM forums, there are plenty of people who either would like to be able to control the gear their 8AT is in. Not everybody drives their RAM like a Prius.
Well, did you try to drive a little more defensive and look a little further down the road? this prevents you from a lot of breaking at 80mph.
I drive every day I85 for 20 miles and another 10 miles 385. who's from around here, knows, what I'm talking about.
I found out, that if I put the cruise control to 70, I barely have to step on the brakes, am just 10mph above speed limit, which makes me don't care about the guy behind me, thinking to pass a transfer truck with 10-15mph faster and being 10mph above speed limit is not fast enough and I get even in morning and evening traffic an average mpg of 20-22mpg.
My brake pads looking still great, even after 85000 miles. I also found, that all them 90mph speeders are usually the ones clogging everything up, because when they pass left and right, they swerve in and out and everyone steps on the brakes because of them. At the end, at the exit, I all see them again. They are not 5 feet further than I. but their nerves are shot, I'm relaxed.
the truck is not a race car. And I drive the same way with my camper in tow. ok- then max 60-65mph by choice, but I never had a problem.
When I see, that someone in the front steps on the brakes, I simply disable the cc and let it roll, mostly, when I'm behind them, I don't even have to brake, because I usually have the same speed until then. And when it's clearing up, I step on the gas. simple as that.
If you think, that's driving like a prius- well- that so it be. I just know, that my vehicles always lasted a long, long time without repairs and very low cost of wear replacements. And even with camper down hill I never had an issue, because if you know, that if you roll down hill and step short on the brakes, the TCM recognizes it and does not switch gear up, until you step on the gas again. this way, you use the motor brake.
I really don't understand your problem. Seriously.
And the least I understand is, that you compare a RAM with a Charger or challenger. The only thing they have in common are the 4 wheels.
Oh, well...